I know that I originally started this blog for bookish adventures, but right now this is also the only outlet that I have for all of my frustration. So like I said in post #1, these may be mini life lessons or just me venting about the happenings in my life.
Soooo I just found out something that I really wish I didn’t know. I am on executive board where two of our members formally dated. They have since broken up, are dating other people, and are cordial toward each other. No awkwardness at all.
However, after a few drinks last night, one of the friends told me that they have drunkenly cheated on the other……….multiple times.
Now I have never cheated on a significant other and I could never do that. But seriously, why be in a relationship if you’re willing to jeopardize it, why can’t you just grow a pair and end it before cheating? I will seriously never understand how you can justify cheating on a person that you have entered into a committment with.
Do you want to be seen as a horrible person? Do you have no respect for yourself or other people? What’s the deal?
If you’re not actually ready to commit (here’s a crazy idea) THEN DON’T FREAKING DO IT! And yes, any form of a relationship is still a commitment. Even if it is just a friendship. They still expect you to be kind, supportive, trustworthy, and whatever else.
I have seriously lost soooooo much respect for this person in a matter of seconds I can’t stand it.
Moral of the story: Don’t be a jackass. Just end it. Don’t cheat