Category Archives: Rae’s Rules

*I apologize in advance that language here is very binary, but keep reading and you’ll see why* According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary (and almost every other dictionary) the definition of a slut is “a promiscuous woman.” Ironically there’s no set … Continue reading →

One of my biggest pet peeves is when people discuss self care and say, “Everyone needs to selfish once in a while.” NO. Taking care of yourself is not selfish. Self care is a freaking necessity. Surely, you’ve heard the phrase … Continue reading →

Not too long ago there was a picture floating around of Facebook that said scientists had discovered that friendships that lasted longer than seven years would last a lifetime. This isn’t true. At least not for everyone. It definitely isn’t … Continue reading →

Apparently there is some confusion about this so I’m going to clear it up. There is no such thing as “nonconsensual sex” if someone does not give consent then it is rape. Consent must be constant. There is rape and … Continue reading →

A friend of mine shared a video that’s floating around on Facebook of a guy explaining that social media is the “number one killer of relationships” because you have thousands of people at your fingertips. Other reasons include: if you … Continue reading →

I had no intention of writing about today but I’ve been seeing a lot of people either complaining about today or being really negative for pretty mush no reason at all. I will never understand how or why so many people … Continue reading →

Firstly, I’m making it known now that I am open to discussion on this topic. I know that some people are not going to agree with me. That’s fine. I don’t expect everyone to. However, if you’re just looking to … Continue reading →

I’m not a parent, nor do I ever want children. However, I’m great with kids and know how to take care of them. I also know that there are just certain things that you shouldn’t say or do to a … Continue reading →

There are a lot of misconceptions floating around about feminism that cause people to think that it’s something that it isn’t. A lot of these people don’t seem to understand that the feminist movement has changed a lot over time. … Continue reading →

You thought I was done didn’t you?! Honestly, so did I but here we go…. When people say book blogging is a competition This only becomes competitive if you make it that way. Usually it starts by comparing yourself to … Continue reading →