This. We’re not toys. Stop fetishizing us
He was very pretty to look at so I was hoping there were brains to back up that face…
At a local café, somewhere near the end of a first lunch date:
“I’ve never been with a Black girl before.”
I wasn’t surprised that “swirling” was new for him. The popularity of “Scandal” had seemed to open up a whole new world of dating doors for us Black women.
“Well, there’s a first time for everything.”
I decided to assume that his use of “been” really meant “dated”, otherwise he would have been getting way ahead of himself. He was very pretty to look at so I was hoping there were brains to back up that face.
“Wait until I tell my friends!”
He sounded like he was a five year old who couldn’t wait to show off a new toy at Show and Tell.
Any hope I possibly…
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