Rae’s Rules to Remember #36: If you’re “picking a side” you’re a part of the problem

After the murder of Alton Sterling and Philando Castille a lot of people were silent on social media. They said nothing. They didn’t care. They didn’t feel that it was a problem within their community or something they felt needed to be addressed.

Then 5 police officers were murdered in Dallas and everyone that was silent before, started to talk about how heartbroken they were, how they were praying for their families, how they wanted the violence to end and they changed their profile pictures to show that they supported law enforcement.

All of this is what I have seen on my personal social media platforms and to be quite honest it makes me sick. Why is that people feel the need to rank tragedies in order by which ones they personally feel are “more devastating?”

Why is that you can’t prayer for all families who have lost their loved ones instead of decided which ones you think deserve to be recognized?

Someone (who I later deleted) posted that they were so upset by the police officers lives lost in Dallas because, “they won’t ever be able to go home to their families again.” Is this not also true for Sterling and Castile? And what about Anthony Nunez, Pedro Villanueva, and Dylan Noble? Two Latinos and white teenager that were all unarmed and killed by the police that same week?

Why is that you can mourn the loss of a police officer but not an innocent civilian? Why is that you can send your support to people in France but not the ones in your own backyard?

I completely understand that officers put their lives on the line every time they walk out of their front door. However, that should not make them exempt from being held accountable for the murders that they commit when there is proof that they were not at all in harms way.

And don’t try to say, “oh well what about black on black crime?” There’s not a huge difference between “black on black” vs “white on white crime” so stop using that as an excuse. Furthermore, civilians don’t take an oath to serve and protect. If you don’t want to support Black Lives Matter, that’s on you  although you really do need to check your privilege. The bottom line is that police brutality is a serious problem in the U.S. Don’t believe me? Did you know that 596 were killed by the police so far this year? If you want more information on that go to The Counted.

If a few rogue police officers cannot be used to represent the entire police force, then you also have to know that a few people willing to murder innocent police officers are not meant to represent everyone who supports BlacksLivesMatter. People need to stop believing that if a black man dies he must have deserved it and if a police officer dies then he goes out as a hero. Innocent lives shouldn’t be taken. Period. And have we seriously forgotten the importance of intersectionality? Does no one realize that the are black police officers in the world. If you mourn the loss of police officers because you believe that Blues Lives Matter, then will you also mourn if that blue life is also black?

If you try to justify the murder of a black civilian but are outraged at the murder of police officers, you’re probably racist.

If you mourn the loss of black civilians and feel that the murder of police officers is a form of revenge, then you’re prejudiced.

In both cases, you are a part of what’s wrong with society because you are saying that you support the murder of innocent people simply because of a group that they belong to. Instead of picking a side you should be mourning all of the lives lost due to senseless violence. But instead our country stands divided because people are too damn stubborn to look at the big picture and acknowledge that there’s a problem with the system.





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24 Responses to Rae’s Rules to Remember #36: If you’re “picking a side” you’re a part of the problem

  1. carlalouise89 says:

    Reblogged this on The Melodramatic Confessions of Carla Louise and commented:
    Every innocent life lost deserves to be recognised – not just the ones you deem acceptable.

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  2. Marquessa says:

    You have captured the issues so eloquently…and the black on black crime “go to” excuse annoys me to no end. Systemic racism and the actions of extremists/non-members can’t be blamed on the group. I’ll be bookmarking your post for a future reblog. Blessings.

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  3. Laura Beth says:

    Thank you so much for this post. You said a lot of what I’ve been thinking / feeling lately. I needed to read this today!

    Liked by 2 people

  4. Ariel Lynn says:

    Thank you for this post!! What annoys me is when people assume that, b/c I’m upset that people were killed by police officers, I’m happy about police officers getting murdered.

    Um.. NO. I’m upset when people get murdered, period. It’s not a freakin’ competition. 😥

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  11. M. L. Kappa says:

    Yes, it’s not a frickin’ competition. Good post, thanks. X

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  12. Belinda O says:

    Thank you for speaking out. Black lives matter, and the fact that we have to say it, hashtag it, turn it into an anthem, so to speak, makes my heart ache. Of course they matter. They matter because they are lives, fully woven into the lives of their friends, families and communities. And yes, police officers need to be recognized for their sacrifices, and the community needs to honor and respect that work. But their lives don’t have an inherently greater value. There is good and bad in all of us. I live with white privilege, but I hope I am never silent on the side of honoring all lives, and letting my black friends, acquaintances and fellow bloggers know their lives matter to me.

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